When someone begins thinking of organizing, many questions can pop into their thoughts. Every once in a while we will select questions from our readers and share our response with you.
Q: I so am embarrassed to have you come over, my place is so messy! I know I need help, but how can you do that without seeing my place? -- Jennifer - Palatine, IL
A: This is a very important and sensitive issue for many people, even preventing some (would that be you?) from really benefiting from our services. Almost everyone who contacts us has some sort of shame or embarrassment about their situation, or they wouldn't be calling.
We understand the pain and frustration of living and working in an environment that is not supportive or reflective of whom you want to be, and that is why we became Professional Organizers. Organizing can actually be fun, when you know that someone is there on your team. The relief of having a place for everything that makes sense to you is worth the effort put into the project, large or small.
You know, because of what we do, even some of our friends apologize when we come over, thinking that we are assessing their mess and thinking the worst of them. Nothing could be farther from the truth.
First off, we have been in a lot of people's homes and offices, and have seen a lot of clutter. Chances are, we have seen a lot worse than what you have in your situation. When we come to see you, we don't look with a critical or judgmental eye, but rather with an eye for how to tackle the challenge. We enjoy helping people feel relief when a room, closet, or an entire house begins to emerge from the mess.
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